10 Reasons not to SMOKE

• Cigarette contains Nicotine which in turn is a highly toxic substance and has been widely used as an insecticide.
• Nicotine addiction has historically been one of the hardest addictions to break.
• As nicotine enters the body, it is distributed quickly through the bloodstream and can cross the blood-brain barrier.
• Smoking is associated with cancers of the mouth, pharynx, larynx, esophagus, stomach, pancreas, cervix, kidney, ureter, and bladder.
• Clinical studies reveal that smoking and impotence are actually linked. Furthermore smoking and infertility may also be connected.
• Experiences have revealed that achieving orgasm during intercourse is highly affected by smoking.
• Smoking has an adverse affect on Lungs. Look at the differences in the picture.
• Smokers not only develop wrinkles and yellow teeth, they also lose bone density, which increases their risk of osteoporosis, a condition that causes older people to become bent over and their bones to break more easily. RHEUMATIC patients with Joint pain must strictly refrain from smoking.
• Smoking helps reduce weight, One Lung at a time!
  
• Well, the FINAL WORDS. THINK SMOKING AS SEX BUT WITH A PROSTITUTE. YOU WILL HAVE PLEASURE FOR SAY AN HOUR BUT THEN YOU GET HIV AND YOUR LIFE ENDS. SAME IS WITH SMOKING, ONLY THAT ITS EFFECT IS NOT VISIBLE RIGHT AWAY.
  

Hence, its my Pledge not to smoke from now onwards. I mean after the remaining 12 sticks of B & H in my drawer gets consumed!! :P

Happy Non Smoking

Rear wall.......Prelude to the Intense Story

What is the best thing that one thinks of? Driving a ferrari on a Sierra Nevada freeway or holidaying with the sizzling celebrity of the time. Well, for me its just like writing what I am about to scribble in the next couple of hours. Hours!!! That gonna take such a long time...ehh!!

I was kind of enjoying my highly hyped cloud nine status where you have an awesome amount credited to your account every month even when your offial hours are 11 to 5 and that too without a work. People having a notion that you are the most humorous soul in your peer group and the most happening chap of the town. Nonetheless, dating one of the sizzling beauties amongst the likes of Fashion Fraternity. If that is not enough, some real hot weekend bashes at the best pubs n discs in B'lore accompanied with some of the great buds u met across. Little hard on the pockets but then who cares! In short, I am having a gala time with everything that one needs at this age.

Amidst all this enjoying mood of mine, I gave a thought. Its not unusual that I think but this time I explored the reminiscenceof my past life. The time when I started my venture and the time when I was pestered by the goliath of some major hardships. I think I should go and write a book and here I am to present to you a very beginning of what it is all about.


My tryst at IIT bombay started with a much coveted 5 pointer status. Those were days, when I used to enjoy each and every part of being a true IITian. Regular nightouts, bunked lectures and immense desperation to be with the fairer sex. Life was never that easy. I was fumbled by regular pressures from the acad side as well as from my peer group but I never bothered. I cruised through the first year. Having a vacation after so long that is after some immense hard times of JEE preparation and that too after being rewared is the best thing one can expect. However, God has something else for me. I lost my father in an accident and all of a sudden life changed. From a lively, carefree and gleeful life, I was bambozzled by the destiny to live a life full of compromises, burden, sorrow, grief and a constant feeling of your futile existence. Life changed. The bunked lectures were then history. The regular outings got restricted. The spendthrift habbit was replaced by responsibilities. There was one thing that didn't change, NIGHOUTS. Yes, they were still the same but with a different purpose, the purpose to cry, the purpose to curse, the purpose to be tensed and defying all my grievances.

Advent of 3rd yr!!!

I shall say the best phase of my life. Got to learn the real meaning of love...............

(To be authored....Rishu Aug 15th '07)

Gud days are coming!!!

Atleast, feeling like dat!! Some great moments in the pipeline. Happy Go Lucky Kid.

Indecent me!!!

For the first time in my life, I felt today that things that i think or talk about can be a junk of indecency, obscenity and with an acerbic taste.

I guess either I m too much of a broad minded soul OR ....forget it. I will try to change and make sure there be a defined line of thinking.

Guess what!!

U r in ur room smoking and working. Suddenly u get an email and all tht u want to do for the rest of ur life becomes lucid clear. This is n't sm fantasy filled story frm the likes of rudyard kipling or J Rowling. It really happened for true!!!

Atleast I can say, I have a vision now...and I m sure what I m going to do with my life.

The whole idea of being in Love
(partly based on fiction)
I was just wondering today about the changes one perceives around him when he is in love. well, its not my first time but I m sure this one is more genuine and with a flare. That doesnt mean my past was nt that intimate but yeah, I really feel some burning sensation for the present relationship. I proposed her a week back and she gently rejected saying "U r a nice guy, I want to be with you but even if I try I just can't". Now that's pretty interesting. What a kool way to turn someone down. But as they say, every cloud has a silver lining. I fumbled into her asking if that was all btw we two. Supposedly, she realized. Afterall, I m a NICE GUY. A 4 hr long chat....silence prevails and a wretched voice frm the other end....."Lets try this." It wasnt a complete YES neither was a NO. Kind of a centrist attitude.

Now with the time I m feeling as if my engrossment of all divin love like feelin is on a passing phase and someone frm the other end wants to be more firm into it. Lets see where it all shapes.

The bottom line is, I m still njoin my single status but in a committed way.....I guess I m in luv again!!!!

Looking in the past

"Well, its 4 am in the morning. I cant have any sleep. My eyes are paining but I don feel tired. I am just feeling rejuvenated. Waiting for the dawn to break and a new day to arrive. Desperately waiting for her call. Seems, life has come to a halt. Its too pathetic but still I can see a ray of hope coming thru the window. yes, its a full moon nite.

I am listening to some of the oldies, all of them are romantic hits where the actor gets into some pain and tries to comfort him with singing some soft melodies. I have tried my best to be the most ideal and perfect person in this world. Have taken oath so many times not to harm any individual. Keep doing good to everyone. Still, I land in difficult situations. I know they are just momentarily and often more aggravated by my own assumptions. However, I just cant resist loving her. Its almost 13 days and I havent heard her voice. Life is coming to an end. Praying day and nite to ameliorate things. Hope the coming dawn will bring some smile to my gloomy life.

June 10th '06
Rishu
Mumbai"

Date with a Mermaid.....

She was there all alone
Smiling, fondling, with a deep caring look.
As if asking, ohh lord wats in me that u seeking for...
my beauty, my soul is never mine..its all bestowed to thy sake.

I touched her with a divine feel
as if not a neatly carved flesh
I can see the greatest irony
all aghast is "Me" in me.

Not again the same legend
Not again the same destiny
Not again the sordid tale
that I alwayz wanted to retreat

She offered a Kiss
but there was no touching
I felt the warmth
and caressed

She bent over and asked gently
for how long thy be looking at me
I gasped with blinking eyes
cant help admiring ur beauty

Our fingers locked in
with a pinch of nails
Her soft delight
was soothing and sore
She smiled at me
with a frozen look
asking me when will I leave

It was dark na na darker
infact the darkiest that can be
was AM 2 and she sleepy
I gave a hug n left......

with some wishes and hopes
and glares in my eyes
to meet this mermaid
again n again....

To feel again the same untouched kiss
to feel again the same soothing pinch
To feel again the same audacity of emotional "Me"
To feel again the same fear of being marooned!!!!

Best of Luck

Some thing that u gonna listen whenever ur frnds or smbdy whum u kno finds u appearing fr smthing different frm ur usual stuffs. Sounds gud when its fr sm kind of exm, interview or smthing really imp fr u. But now ppl have a habbit to cliche it using numerous times even on smthing totally out of context.

For e.g, If I say I gonna go fr a date, Ppl frm backside start cheering BOL rishu Best of luck!!!

I think, I think and I think....wat was that BOL for??? And then u see a very weird smile on their faces as if they r trying to explain the hidden meaning of Best of luck......I looked into his eyes....a very different look trying to say smthing......Best of luck....na na...Breast of Luck!!!!! OR Best of F**k!!!!

The chucking ends n u go away on ur way....

Around 10 months back on a drunken night:

I might be in the state of delirium where I am nt able to think or rather percieve what changes are going around me. I feel as if I am being turned into a carcass. I constantly question myself about the very existence of happiness, freedom, vigour, power and all luring adjectives. Do I really fit into these or its just a matter of chance that I m being deprived from them. Well Well, I dont even know whatever I have scribbled so far. Seems, I am in a state of immense pain that can never be shown to the outer world. It ruins me, It ruins my sanity. I am someone without a worth. Cant think of anything. Wish I change soon from what I m.

Thankfully my Blog is back

You may find it interesting..Mostly fr beginners in the love zone.

Love is smthing that we all crave for. Whether b a King or a Pawn..Love touches everyone's heart. Its nt nly a fantasy of a juvenile heart but also the audacity of gallant souls. In short, love is a wave which has or had or will touch the coastline of ur heart once in ur lifetime.

We all dream to be a gr8 player of this game....bt thr r sm basics which U must know before entering the arena....The basics which will never overcome u even if u win and the basics which will never let u feel low even if u be defeated.

Rembr, its nt that Love is painful, nor that being NOT in love is painful...

The Qns....What Is Love?

Love is smthing tht can never b defined. Its such a precious feeling which you even rate higher than being divine. A nostalgic feeling of being at home even if ur mummy cooking a meal fr u...Cant imagine..ehh!! Now thats what love actually is...U never kno what gonna happen. But They say when u r in true love....U can kill ur self, exterminate urself, destroy ur every existence...but cant afford to misss ur sweetheart

The Strategy

From my experience what I have percieved so far..there are basically two modes of playing this game. Both of them are totally different from each other BUT with the same rules and regulations.

In case of Boys:

• They look for all available domain space. Look for soft targets. After the target is identified they keep on trying their best to make the Bandi commit. You may find it strange that How this is Love..basically the preliminary attitude nly is to make a GF rather gettin a love. But believe me...this attitude changes wth time and HE and SHE falls into divine love with no ambits and bounds.

• Gal shows explicit or rather implicit remarks of romanticism and persuades the guy to open his heart and embrace her even though the guy has no particular feelings for her. The guy committs coz in this highly competetive world he never wants to miss any luck and even if the then stated love vows wr nthing but sheer mendacity, the love grows on wth time and again committment with no ambits and bounds

In case of Gals:

• Someone of a decent look with a cute innocence on face who can provide social and economic security to her and who is someone ahead of the crowd.

( Rest I don kno...cozz nt many Gfs alive :P)

Rules of the game:

• Never ever commit to a girl whum U think is nt worthy to be bestowed with your genuine love. I mean to say that you will find times when she is the soft target to get,providing all the needs and desires that a soul mate can do fr u but your relationship can become very vulnerable and is poised to shower u with mammoth pains in the long run. Even if in a year long relationship, you find that okk this is nt a gud thing bout her bt i will manage, My best suggestion....make urself clear and be prepared fr the future...U may face sm real hardtimes in ur life.

• At times U will feel that things are nt going ur way and U need to do smthing. U talk to ur mate how to handle the situation and the output is most likely to come this way okk things r nt wrking but we will better wait and watch..even if it dsnt wrk then we will take step that time. My suggestion....Dont wait fr anything..thr is no second time. They say patience is gud to have but in the game of Love..patience dsnt work. Hit the iron nt when it is hot....but in Love...keep hitting the iron so tht it gets hot and when its hot ,hit again and things will cm ur way.

To be a winner in love:

Find a girl who is definitely a correct choice for u. ( and I will tell u how to chose one)

ELSE

Follow The rule of 3 F's

Flirt, Fu*k and Forget
And Thy shall always remain happy
Believe me there are hundreds of "so called ultra modern hot chics " wandering around for the coveted F word.

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But Onething fr sure....If U don have Love......U have missd smthing.
No wrldly pleasure can act second to it...


Well, there are many more fundaes and I will probably take more sessions on that but fr now I guess this much is decent enuf to make u aware bout myths and facts of love.....The rest of it wil be continued in sequel