Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Around 10 months back on a drunken night:

I might be in the state of delirium where I am nt able to think or rather percieve what changes are going around me. I feel as if I am being turned into a carcass. I constantly question myself about the very existence of happiness, freedom, vigour, power and all luring adjectives. Do I really fit into these or its just a matter of chance that I m being deprived from them. Well Well, I dont even know whatever I have scribbled so far. Seems, I am in a state of immense pain that can never be shown to the outer world. It ruins me, It ruins my sanity. I am someone without a worth. Cant think of anything. Wish I change soon from what I m.

Thankfully my Blog is back
You may find it interesting..Mostly fr beginners in the love zone.

Love is smthing that we all crave for. Whether b a King or a Pawn..Love touches everyone's heart. Its nt nly a fantasy of a juvenile heart but also the audacity of gallant souls. In short, love is a wave which has or had or will touch the coastline of ur heart once in ur lifetime.

We all dream to be a gr8 player of this game....bt thr r sm basics which U must know before entering the arena....The basics which will never overcome u even if u win and the basics which will never let u feel low even if u be defeated.

Rembr, its nt that Love is painful, nor that being NOT in love is painful...

The Qns....What Is Love?

Love is smthing tht can never b defined. Its such a precious feeling which you even rate higher than being divine. A nostalgic feeling of being at home even if ur mummy cooking a meal fr u...Cant imagine..ehh!! Now thats what love actually is...U never kno what gonna happen. But They say when u r in true love....U can kill ur self, exterminate urself, destroy ur every existence...but cant afford to misss ur sweetheart

The Strategy

From my experience what I have percieved so far..there are basically two modes of playing this game. Both of them are totally different from each other BUT with the same rules and regulations.

In case of Boys:

  • They look for all available domain space. Look for soft targets. After the target is identified they keep on trying their best to make the Bandi commit. You may find it strange that How this is Love..basically the preliminary attitude nly is to make a GF rather gettin a love. But believe me...this attitude changes wth time and HE and SHE falls into divine love with no ambits and bounds.
  • Gal shows explicit or rather implicit remarks of romanticism and persuades the guy to open his heart and embrace her even though the guy has no particular feelings for her. The guy committs coz in this highly competetive world he never wants to miss any luck and even if the then stated love vows wr nthing but sheer mendacity, the love grows on wth time and again committment with no ambits and bounds

In case of Gals:

  • Someone of a decent look with a cute innocence on face who can provide social and economic security to her and who is someone ahead of the crowd.
( Rest I don kno...cozz nt many Gfs alive :P)

Rules of the game:

  • Never ever commit to a girl whum U think is nt worthy to be bestowed with your genuine love. I mean to say that you will find times when she is the soft target to get,providing all the needs and desires that a soul mate can do fr u but your relationship can become very vulnerable and is poised to shower u with mammoth pains in the long run. Even if in a year long relationship, you find that okk this is nt a gud thing bout her bt i will manage, My best suggestion....make urself clear and be prepared fr the future...U may face sm real hardtimes in ur life.
  • At times U will feel that things are nt going ur way and U need to do smthing. U talk to ur mate how to handle the situation and the output is most likely to come this way okk things r nt wrking but we will better wait and watch..even if it dsnt wrk then we will take step that time. My suggestion....Dont wait fr anything..thr is no second time. They say patience is gud to have but in the game of Love..patience dsnt work. Hit the iron nt when it is hot....but in Love...keep hitting the iron so tht it gets hot and when its hot ,hit again and things will cm ur way.

To be a winner in love:

Find a girl who is definitely a correct choice for u. ( and I will tell u how to chose one)

ELSE

Follow The rule of 3 F's

Flirt, Fu*k and Forget
And Thy shall always remain happy
Believe me there are hundreds of "so called ultra modern hot chics " wandering around for the coveted F word.

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But Onething fr sure....If U don have Love......U have missd smthing.
No wrldly pleasure can act second to it...


Well, there are many more fundaes and I will probably take more sessions on that but fr now I guess this much is decent enuf to make u aware bout myths and facts of love.....The rest of it wil be continued in sequel